i think you should look at the all the well known anatomy texts in a shop, just spend a few minutes and see which one suits your style the best. What one person thinks about the texts may not be your impression when you get round to looking at it yourself.
Here are a few texts that I have looked at:
Grays Anatomy for students - Drake
Clinical Anatomy - Snell
Clinical Anatomy - Moore and Agur
Regional Anatomy - Last (& Sinnatamby)
As for phys, basics are explained well in Marieb but thats exactly what it easy - nice and basic though very easy to pick up. Vander is also decent
Hope that helped
