Who do you consider to be an appropriate role model for people of your age and why?

**samie** · 13-04-2005, 05:58 PM

Hi,

i am cosidering applying for the oxford access scheme summer school and im stuck on this question "Who do you consider to be an appropriate role model for people of your age and why?"

help would be appreciatd

**DH2005** · 13-04-2005, 06:14 PM

Hello Samie

That's kinda tough for me to answer without knowing your age!

I'm sure people on the forum won't mind talking through some ideas with you, but it's important that you actually do consider the person you nominate to be a role model - if you're pressed to explain your choice in detail at interview and you're unable to do so, your application will falter.

**samie** · 21-04-2005, 02:56 PM

im 17 in year 12.

I agree, but i cant think of anyone!!

help!!

**DH2005** · 21-04-2005, 03:41 PM

Okay... well, the person doesn't need to be exactly the same age as you - someone slightly older could be an ideal role model, because their achievements can give you something to aspire to over the next few years.

So, think about people in public life in their late teens and early twenties who you admire. Sportsmen, actors, musicians... any thoughts, yet?

**samie** · 21-04-2005, 05:49 PM

i was thinkin of bob geldof, passionate bout band aid, etc. Also about fathers for justice.

What do u think?

**DH2005** · 21-04-2005, 06:06 PM

Sure - I think Geldof is a very inspiring figure in many ways, although I'm surprised that someone of your age knows much about him. I'm 25, and I just about remember the work he did on Band Aid and Live Aid... is there anyone of your own generation that grabs you?

I'm not doubting your current choice, by the way.

**samie** · 21-04-2005, 09:35 PM

my mom likes the work he does and told me about it once when he was on richard and judy during the band aid period.

Personally, i cant think of anyone who stand's out from my generation.

**DH2005** · 22-04-2005, 01:28 PM

Okay - while I agree that he's a good man, you're going to need to be able to say more about him than that. If you're asked to explain your choice in more detail at interview that won't be good enough.

Let's come at this from another direction - what do you admire in other people? What impresses you? What, if anything, do you wish you were able to do, but cannot?

**cupranod** · 06-05-2005, 03:38 PM

May I suggest another approach in answering this question.
People in'public' life are more easily identifiable in being seen to champion certain causes,and use their profile to do so.
Whilst this is most creditworthy,perhaps you could delve into your local community and make contact with individuals who are not famous or wealthy,but who make a voluntary contribution of their time in supporting others.
Speak to Mencap volunteers,The Down's Syndrome Association and other organisations in your area and go and meet these individuals.
I know it is a cliche,but from these unsung heroes you will be more able to more accurately describe what a role model really is.These people do not have money or celebrity,only the common threads of human compassion and care.
I hope this helps you.

Mark.